We want to be available to help and encourage any who are in need of help, an ear, or most of all prayers for their own homes and marriages. We understand the private and intense nature of marital issues and will respect your privacy if you contact us. If you’d like to get in contact with us, here’s how:
Derek Guyer
derekguyer @ gmail . com
317-753-7158
……Lisa Guyer
dlguyer @ msn . com
If you’d like to talk through IM, our screen name is: riseofthehome


Hi it was inpiring to read your story. That touched my heart. I am a pastor and founded burning fire ministries and my wife and i have been experiencing hard time where we dont understand each other. We always fight. We had a fall before we got married we lost membership, we lost the friends, but God came in to our rescue and forgave us by the blood of Jesus. Because of that we have risen again. We stil face challenges as a family and misunderstanding.
By: Fundile on March 31, 2008
at 6:34 pm
Hi:
If you ever want to talk…let me know.
God BLess and keep you and yours!
In His Service,
Fred del Guidice
(sherry’s Bro)
By: fred del Guidice on April 18, 2008
at 4:47 pm
This is a very nice website. My only suggestion is that you need a Statement of Faith on the site. Perhaps it’s here and I didn’t see it.
By: Rev. K. L. Maines on July 1, 2008
at 5:18 pm
I was told about you and your website. It looks good.
I commend you for your ministry. It’s a tough one. We, too, are survivors of infidelity. Twenty years later, we’re still dealing with the ripples. God has used it in our ministry often and I have written a book on spiritual formation that includes my adultery in it.
We recently had a 4 month focus on men’s purity at our church that rose to the surface a number of young marriages struggling. It was decided that my book (and me teaching through my book) would be the resource for these marriages. Like one of your commentors said, the problem in adultery is that Jesus is not the Lord of the cheaters heart. We’ve discovered that the “victim” can also have that problem so deeply hidden that it takes a whollop like this to bring it to the surface.
Anyway, my friend thought my book my be a helpful resource for you to recommend. If you would like to receive a complimentary copy of it, let me know.
By: Gina Calvert on November 20, 2008
at 2:46 pm
Dear Derek:
If you so desire we would love to sing for your ministry. We give Thou Art Worthy presentations wherever we are asked to go.
Next time you visit Sherry we will try to come up and sing for you and your family.
God bless your efforts,
Fred del Guidice
By: Fred del Guidice on September 10, 2009
at 10:12 pm
I happened upon this site today and I am glad I did. I always had this vision of what marriage is “supposed to be”. Lately, I have realized there are no “perfect marriages” and it’s even harder when God is shut out of it. I shut him out without even realizing it. I tried doing things “my way” because His way wasn’t fast enough for me. It’s amazing how I can think I’ve got things handled when I don’t. My bitterness and stubbornness almost ended our marriage. It took me getting right with God before I could get right with my husband. I want to thank you for sharing your experiences. I have found encouragement through your story! I continue to pray that He gives us the strength through our trials. I will add your family to my prayers. Thanks again!
By: Carrie on November 24, 2009
at 8:56 pm
Derek and Lisa,
God bless you, I love your site and more than anything your hearts. We’ll be praying for you and we’ll be in touch.
Alan
By: Alan Meyers on August 24, 2011
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